Quill & Chill
A BDSM blog by Morgan E. Sullivan
G is for Golden Shower
Urolagnia (also urophilia, and, more colloquially, a golden shower or watersports) is a paraphilia in which sexual excitement is associated with the sight or thought of urine or urination. The term has origins in the Greek language (from ouron, "urine", and lagneia, "lust"). Golden shower is slang for the practice of urinating on another person for sexual pleasure.
Urolagnia is sometimes associated with, or confused with the Japanese practice of omorashi, arousal from having a full bladder or a sexual attraction to someone else experiencing the discomfort or pain of a full bladder, possibly a sadomasochistic inclination.
Why watersports?
- Domination /submission! Many people enjoy the D/s aspect of golden showers. There is a psychological and physical restraint aspect of waiting for a golden stream, and on the Dom side, the feel of power and some physical degradation.
- Humiliation/punishment: The element of total control and taboo sexual practices can be a naughty turn-on!
- You're an emiction enthusiast! The D/s or S&M aspects may not hold too much draw for you...it may just be that you like urine play! In that case, do what suits you!
Some Golden Shower Accessories
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